Sunday, August 20, 2017

Mission Log - August 14, 2017 - T8, W1 - Member Missionaries make it Work

Dearest family and friends,

Woo!  It has been a very good week.
Ya know, fixing a bike, can make you kinda tired... 😆



We had an awesome lesson with Kevin and Caleb!  For weeks, we'd been having lessons with them - we knew they were so prepared!  We even organized a church tour for them.  But they just hadn't committed to being baptized.  So, we were finally able to bring their fellowship, Ricardo and Alejandro, the Bishop's sons.  Ricardo went on his mission but had to come back because of some medical issues.  He's going back out as soon as he can, though!

We went in.  We had planned to review the importance of baptism, but the lesson took a different turn when Ricardo started pumping out all these questions of the soul.  It was a humbling experience; I realized that our lack thereof might have been why Kevin and Caleb hadn't committed yet.  Sure enough, once it came down to their beliefs and desires, we discovered that Kevin didn't actually know what faith was or how to develop it, and Caleb, the older brother, didn't particularly see the need for a particular baptism.  Ricardo then said "I understand your concern," then proceeded to share some scriptures and his testimony, and they both agreed to work towards being baptized!!

We can't do this without the members.  It's like a doctor's office - the nurses are around people in critical condition all the time.  They have a lot of people on their hands and they really can't be laser -focused on each one.  But the families of the patients - they can stay with them, comfort them, bring cards or flowers, and when the patient's all healed, take them home rejoicing.  That's where the members are so important - they can look after healing individuals way better than we can.  And even though we're all brothers and sisters in Christ, it's even better when the members ask us to teach their family and close friends.

We met a man named Roman and his cousin, Luis.  We planned to teach a basic God is your Loving Heavenly Father, but Roman had a ton of questions and comments - he expounded on some pretty solid doctrine, such as how Jesus Christ is our advocate with Heavenly Father, because of His Atonement, we all will be resurrected to be judged of Him and His Father, and the difference between temporal and spiritual death - he's very smart, so we skipped to the Restored Gospel and the Book of Mormon.  He was a little skeptical, but he accepted it and promised to share with Luis.  He told us, "I'm not TAKING it - I'm just BORROWING it.  If it doesn't feel right, I'll give it back and you can give it to someone else." :)

We had dinner with a returning member, and she is amazing!  She's had a hard life - she left the Church for a while, but she's coming back strong!  As we shared the dinner message, she added some insights from what she'd been studying that morning in a talk by Richard G. Scott about recognizing answers to prayers.  She's so awesome!

A very good week indeed.

Love, Love, Love,
Hermana Smurthwaite

P.S.
​Also, got some new shoes!  The old ones were falling apart.  R.I.P. :(


These were the ones I came out in. They certainly made their mark...


Here's the new ones:


Mission Log - August 7, 2017 - T7, W6 - Potatoes or Eggs

Hello, fellow disciples!



An inactive member named Blanca Vargas gave us a gift basket!  We met her husband, who's not a member, for the first time this week and he was very nice!  We hope to start teaching him soon - he's a truck driver, so he's often not home.  We learned that Blanca loves couponing, and her little boy, Misael, loves ninja turtles! :)  She told us she knows she needs to go to church, but "poco a poco," or little by little.  She did commit to read the Book of Mormon every day!

On our way to an appointment, we saw an investigator that we'd passed off to the English Elders a few weeks back.  He said that he hadn't met with the Elders in a while.  We noticed he had a cigarette, so we asked him how much he smokes.  He told us a pack a day.  We told him that God did not want him to smoke - that it was against the Word of Wisdom.  We asked what we could do to help, and made a plan with him to stop smoking.  We testified that as he stopped, his marriage would improve, his health would improve, and he would be happier.  He promised to try - tune in next week to see how it goes!

We were able to go on exchanges with the Spanish STL's from the other stake.  It was very fun!  Two of the people we visited were related to some members I'd served in 12th ward, my first area.  One, Hermana Borja, pointed out my name-tag and asked if I knew an Hermana Mata.  I did!  She told me that that was her sister, and could I please send her a letter?  I told her of course I would!  The second one was Hermana Estupinan - this time, I recognized the name.  The sister we were visiting was actually going through a very hard time - her husband had just left her and she had decided to stop going to church because she was ashamed.  We asked her some questions, like, "How did you feel when you were baptized?", "How do you feel the Spirit?", ect.  I then said to her, "You can go two ways when trials happen - either you can grow closer to God, or farther away."

There are two types of people: potatoes and eggs. The hard times in life are like boiling water- if you're a potato, you will grow softer in the pot. If you're an egg, you'll harden.

Anyways, I left her house with a resolve to write her relatives in 12th ward.  We then went to see a cute old lady named Maggie.  She asked what ward I was serving in, and I told her Transmountain.  She asked if I could visit her daughter, Odette.  Odette had been in Montanavista ward before it split, but she moved into our area a few years ago and never moved her records.  It was a miracle - the Relief Society resident was able to come with us and meet her.  She has two kids, Diego, who's 12, and Jiana, who's 8.  Jiana's not baptized yet, but Diego goes to church with his great aunt, Hermana Gonzales, who's in our ward!  Odette really wants to come back to church, but her husband wants nothing to do with it, so it's hard for her.  We shared Mosiah 2:6, which says "And they pitched their tents round about the temple, every man having his tent with the door thereof towards the temple, that thereby they might remain in their tents and hear the words which king Benjamin should speak unto them".  We told her that by reading and praying, she could keep her family's tent facing the right way while her husband's heart softened.  And Hermana Silva, the Relief Society president, promised to get her visiting teachers!

Ah, yes, and the bike I'd been given was STOLEN!


Just kidding!  I just lost the key, so a member was kind enough to saw the lock for me. :)


That's all for this week! Tune in next week for more adventures, miracles, and photos!
Hermana Smurthwaite​

Mission Log - July 31, 2017 - T7, W5 - Church Tour and Awesome Missionary at a Funeral

Hola from El Paso!!


One morning, after exersize, I was reading the Ensign and realized my aunt and uncle, Dave and Denae, are famous! :)


Huzzah!

Whew!  What a week, what a week!

We had a miracle lesson with two of our investigators, Kevin and Caleb.  They're brothers, 17 and 21, and we'd considered dropping them.  We went to what we faithlessly believed was our last lesson with them.  Kevin was outside - after the usual pleasantries, we asked how he was doing.  He literally used the wording, "I'm progressing"! :)  This is funny because that is the terminology that missionaries use for investigators that are keeping commitments.  He and Caleb both read the introduction just like we'd asked, and prayed about it!  They told us they would keep reading and praying to find their answer, and agreed to come to a church tour.  During the lesson Caleb actually wanted to share a scripture with US that he'd found - it was amazing!

The miracle continues - the member who accompanied us on the church tour, Hermana Medina, was actually perfect fellowship for them!  She's got a daughter on a mission, so the first thing she pointed out to them when we got inside the church building was her daughter's plaque.  Kevin pointed to the picture and said, "I know her!" ... you know her?  "Yeah! She was on the swim team with me in school."  It's awesome to see how Heavenly Father had put Karla in Kevin's path so he could make that connection.

As we walked around the building, Hermana Medina added a lot of helpful stuff - like talking about seminary, explaining the tithing slips, and so on.  There was actually a sister working in the family history center, so we went in and she told Kevin and Caleb to take a pedigree chart and fill it out! :)

We ended the tour in the chapel, where we had our lesson, the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  Now, if this were a church movie, I would tell you they both cried and asked to be baptized and were at church the next day.  But this is the unedited version of a church movie - so even though we showed them the baptismal font and invited HARD-CORE to baptism, they both didn't feel ready, although they both admitted that they felt the Spirit while we were in there.  They also slept in, so they weren't able to make it to church yesterday.  But I have faith that Kevin and Caleb will come unto Christ sooner or later!  Because Heavenly Father is calling them - so they're bound to hear it.

We were asked to sing a funeral on Wednesday.  I honestly don't remember that last time I went to a funeral, but there was one amazing missionary there.

For a little background, the woman who had died was baptized about 30-35 years ago.  She lived alone for much of that time, but she always had visiting and home teachers to visit her.  So this short, blond-haired, older man gets up to speak; he introduced himself as the missionary that baptized her, Elder Ludvig.  He told us that he would call her every other week just to see how she was.  His voice got very emotional when he spoke of her good qualities, her good life.  The Spirit was so strong - I sat back in the pew and thought, "Wow. I wish I could be a missionary like that!"  It motivated me to care more, love more, and write more of the people I've worked with.  He was truly a consecrated missionary.

Another miracle happened on Thursday.  We were lost (which does not happen often, I assure you) and tired.  It was about 4:30, and we hadn't brought our bikes, so we were on feet.  After some internal murmuring and lame(an)ness, we decided to knock on the door of the lady's house whom we'd stopped in front of.  She not only let us in, she offered us food and water, an now she's a new investigator!  She loves household projects - she remodeled the kitchen with her husband - so she'd be an awesome ward service project coordinator. :)  Missionaries came to her house once 6 YEARS AGO and she still remembers!  Miracles!

We found an Investigator this week named Janae.  She is so cute!  She's 14, and very excited to learn about the Gospel.  She agreed to read the Book of Mormon and pray about it - so golden!

Miracles, everyday!

Love,
Hermana Smurthwaite

Mission Log - July 24, 2017 - T7, W4 - Three Sisters

"DO NOT BE AN OBJECT DURING COMPANIONSHIP STUDY. BE AN AGENT WITH AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE SO YOU CAN MAKE YOUR GOALS A REALITY. HAVE A PASSION FOR CONVERSION!" -Sister Guffey

We got a third companion for three days this week!  Luckily she had a bike...


Needed repairs!


She got to be there for my greenie's birthday!  She turned 20 - we are now all the same age!


Fun, busy, crazy times!  We had to share areas, so we were driving/ bike 80 miles a day. :)  Her companion had to go home, and then, another Hermana went home, so she had to leave and be the companion of the one that left​.  It is hard to go home early - for the missionaries who leave, the ones who stay, and their families.

If you are a missionary, I recommend this talk by Jeffery R. Holland called "Don't you dare go home!"  The main idea is that, however bad it is, don't leave early.  He specifically exempts those with medical problems - he's not talking about that.  He's talking about those who gave up because it was too hard.  Trust Elder Holland and trust me when we say: IT'S WORTH IT!  Stay!

Sorry for the short email this week!  Love you!  Miracles to be reported next week!

Hna Smurthwaite

Mission Log - July 17, 2017 - T7, W3 - Awesome FHE and Miracles!

Hello Everyone!



"Rain, rain, go away! Got lots of visits today!"

Whew! What a week, what a week.  This week, we had perhaps the best family home evening lesson I've ever participated in!  It was planned 2 weeks in advance.  The sister that planned it with us has an inactive brother whose wife is a recent convert.  The inactive and recent convert couple have a little baby about to turn 1, who takes up a lot of their time.  We invited the Aguileras, who're their good friends from the ward.

After dinner at the Martinez's, we had a few minutes before the Aguileras and the Rodriguez's got there, so we went over the lesson plan with the Martinez's.  Hermano Martinez had some great ideas for fun activities!  It was going to be a basic CPR lesson (church pray read) compared to the basic needs of the body (rest water food.)  And the Rodriguez's were half an hour late, so we were able to prepare the Aguileras, as well!

We started with prayer.  Well, I mean, first we started with a PRAYER prayer, then we started by reviewing the PRINCIPLE of prayer. :)  We explained how prayer was like water for our spirits - we can't survive spiritually without it!  Hermano Martinez organized a simple game where there were two lines of people.  At the head of one line was Hermano Aguilera, and the other was Hermano Rodriguez.  Hermano Martinez would flip a coin and call out heads or tails (Cara o cruz).  If the coin landed on what he called out, the Hermanos would have to squeeze the hand of the person next to them, and that person would need to pass along the signal, until the last person in line, who would then grab the cup that was on the chair at the end of the line.  Hermano Martinez explained that if the Father of a household had a strong communication with God, the whole household would grow stronger with him.  We then read Alma 34:20-25 and talked about some things we could pray for.  We then read 3 Nefi 18:21 and talked about the importance of praying as a family.

To transition into the next point, we played one of those "walk by faith" games.  Only instead of listening to a still, small voice, the blindfolded participants had to hold onto one end of the Book of Mormon and their guides had to hold on to the other end.  If the blindfolded person lost their grip of the "iron rod," they needed to kneel down until their guide offered them the scriptures again.  This was especially fun to watch the couples do. :)

We all went back inside and talked about how the scriptures GUIDE us - and we read 2 Nefi 32:3.  In English, it says to 'feast upon the words of Christ', but in Spanish, it says to 'delight yourself in the words of Christ'; so it's a little different.  But, in the footnote, it actually explains that the scripture more accurately means to 'enjoy the words of Christ like a banquet'.  So we read the footnote and explained that just like our bodies need food to have strength, our spirits need spiritual food to have spiritual strength.  The conversation also turned to how we feel when physically sick versus how we feel when we spiritually deprive ourselves.

To transition to the last point, and to help the kids calm down a little, we asked everyone to close their eyes and go to sleep for a minute.  We then read in 3 Nefi 18 where Jesus Christ instituted the sacrament.  We reverently compared going to church to sleeping - our bodies need to rest every day.  Our spirits need rest, too - and true rest doesn't come from sitting on the couch eating bonbons!  It comes from partaking of the sacrament and renewing the covenants we made at baptism.

Well, we made it to the end, and Hermano and Hermana Martinez both shared powerful testimonies about the 3 basics.  Hermana Martinez even started crying!  Hermano Martinez said, "We haven't done family home evening in so long!  But the missionaries are right - when I had those things (Church, pray, read, food, water, sleep) it was on my mission - and that was the happiest time of my life!"

We finished off the night with Chocoflan, wafers, and ice-cream, just talking with the Rodriguez's.  It was awesome!

On Tuesday, we were biking down towards EPCC campus to do some Family History.  On the way there, we crossed the street - but realized that was the complete opposite direction of where we were going.  Scratching my helmet, I turned us back around.  We barely made it to the other side of the street when someone driving along the side we just came from honked. It was a less-active member we'd been trying to find for WEEKS!  She drove away, but not before signing to us that she loved us, too (because we were doing that dance you do when you see someone far away and are super excited to see them: wave a lot, make a heart shape with the hands, point to them then yourself then them again, pound your chest with a closed fist and point to them, etc.)  It was a miracle!

We had a lesson with an investigator that we'd been teaching for quite some time.  Instead of following the lesson plan we'd prepared that morning, I had the impression to teach the restoration.  I thought to myself, "again?" but I followed the prompting.  When we got to the part about prophets, my companion testified that we have a living prophet today.  Now, normally when we say that, people just sort of nod, mistakenly thinking, "Well, yeah; a prophet's just any good person."  But Maria's eyebrows shot right up - "Really?! Where? What's his name?"  She was so excited that there's a living prophet today - she agreed to go on LDS.org and search all the general conference talks. :)

We met a man named Allen.  He's my companion's friend's inactive brother - he went on a mission, but he kind of went off the deep end.  He now doesn't believe in Christ and doesn't pray, but meditates. :/  We met him and his wife, Ellen, and they're expecting their first child.  We hope to rebuild his faith and build his wife's faith so he can baptize her before the baby comes. :)

We finally got in contact with an investigator whom I'd never met before, Brianda.  I'd never met her because my last companion, Hermana Oliphant, told me it was dangerous - that her boyfriend was abusive and didn't like missionaries.  Nevertheless, I had the prompting and I followed it.  She is now 3 months pregnant.  She arrived here from Mexico about 5 months ago - she's trying to become a citizen.  We actually just saw her this morning at 9, because it was the only time she could meet.  She entrusted us with some important-looking papers and asked us to translate it into Spanish, which we promised to do.  We're seeing her again on Thursday, but if you all could please keep her in your all's prayers!

We accidentally went to the wrong trailer for an appointment on Friday, but it in reality was the right trailer, because we were able to contact two of our investigators, Ciro and Carmen, and start teaching their son and his girlfriend, Hugo and Lluvia.  They're so golden!  They promised to read and pray every day, asked where the church was and what time, and set up a return appointment without us even asking! :)  So that was a miracle.

OK LAST THING we've been visiting a less-active member named Hermana Dominguez.  We've been trying and trying, and it felt like there was never any progress.  This Sunday, we asked her to give us a ride to church, and to our surprise, she accepted!  She not only gave us a ride, she showed up in church clothes and stayed for all of Sacrament meeting!  It was the first time in years!

Miracles, Miracles, Miracles!

Love, Hermana Smurthwaite

P.S. WAIT I FORGOT there was a non-member that came to church for the first time on her own!  The Bishop kept signaling to look behind me, so during a pause, I ran to the back pew and sat next to her.  My companion had to stay with Hermana Dominguez, but her name is Elida Hernandez!  She came because of her boss, who used to be a Bishop, and we have an appointment with her today!